When I packed my bags for my new home after getting married, among the essential items sat one reassuringly familiar object: a classic glass jar of instant Bru coffee.
Before marriage, fast-paced mornings meant opening ‘3-in-1’ coffee sachets without a second thought. But stepping into my new role as a homemaker brought a desire for intentionality in crafting a proper cup of coffee from scratch.
My early attempts at playing barista were, admittedly, a bit shaky. There were multiple occasions of watery brews, misplaced proportions, and endless trial-and-error as I adjusted ratios to fit oat milk over full-cream, or hot versions over iced. The learning curve was steeper than I expected.
Overconfidence set in the moment I mastered the basic brew. Eager to experiment, I turned to attempt butter coffee, a trend inspired by bulletproof coffee.
Having fallen in love with the decadent ‘French Butter Latte’ at a popular coffee hotspot, I was convinced I could easily replicate that rich taste at home.
The first attempt was a complete disaster, to say the least. I dropped a scoop of margarine and a heavy-handed dash of table salt straight into hot Bru. One sip of that greasy, salty mistake was enough to send the entire cup straight down the sink.
I retreated to the standard, safe milk-and-Bru formula for the next few days after. But the craving for that luxurious cafe-style drink persisted. I knew the concept worked. I just needed the right technique.
A few days later, I took the leap again, this time with careful precision and humility.
One teaspoon of high-quality block butter went into my mug alongside a delicate pinch of Himalayan pink salt. I poured in a third of a cup of boiling water and whisked vigorously until the butter melted completely, emulsifying into the already-fragrant Bru.
I filled a glass with ice, poured the warm coffee mixture over it, and topped it with chilled milk that I had frothed until light. Omitting the ice yields an equally rich, comforting warm mug instead.
The result surprised me. The salt cut through the bitterness of the coffee, while the butter added a creaminess that elevated the humble Bru into a bespoke fusion.
Having a hand at making this drink turned out to be about far more than twisting a traditional beverage. In figuring out the balance of a Butter Bru Latte, I found my footing as a wife. Merging the nostalgic comfort of an Indian pantry staple with a modern cafe technique gave me a daily morning ritual to call my own.
It taught me that building a home, much like brewing a good cup of coffee, requires patience, a bit of trial and error, and the confidence to create something I can uniquely call my own.

